Retreats for Therapists

Upcoming Retreats:

Meet You at the Bay, San Diego, California October 2-4, 2025

A Three-Day Immersion into Your Own Internal System
This retreat offers space to slow down, turn inward, and explore your parts through an IFS and EMDR-informed lens. You’ll deepen your Self-to-part relationships one step at a time—gaining personal insight, professional clarity, and hands-on experience with the model. The more fully you know your own system, the more confidently you can navigate your clients’ systems, too.

Earn 16 EMDRIA and NBCC CE

Meet You: A Transformative, Healing, and Experiential Retreat for Therapists

Designed exclusively for up to 35 therapists, this retreat offers a personalized and intimate environment that thrives on authenticity, curiosity, and acceptance. It’s ideal for EMDR-trained clinicians and those familiar with Internal Family Systems (IFS); though formal Level 1 training is not required. Our retreats are grounded and real, blending laughter and warmth with deep, reflective work.

We don’t just teach this model, we live it. Our leadership team models openness, flexibility, and collaboration so you can fully show up as yourself, wherever you are on your path.

What to Expect

This is not a didactic training, it's an immersive, experiential opportunity to gently get to know your own system one part at a time. You’ll select a personal or professional area to explore, with our support in clarifying your focus and setting your intention for the retreat. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, curious, or simply ready to reconnect with your inner world, this retreat meets you where you are.

Each day includes parts mapping, internal interviews, small group exploration, and optional practice exercises. You'll also have the opportunity to observe or participate in live demonstrations with our retreat leaders, gaining real-time insight into the healing process.

Examples of Topics You Might Explore

We’ve designed this retreat to be flexible, so your journey can unfold based on your needs. Some participants come in with clarity, while others discover their focus along the way. Here are some common themes you might choose to explore:

  • Therapist Parts & Professional Triggers: Explore the parts of you that show up in sessions, whether it's performance anxiety, over-responsibility, emotional detachment, or feeling activated by certain clients or dynamics.

  • Burnout and Boundaries: Work with the parts that push you past your limits and the ones that resist rest or softness.

  • Personal Stuck Points: Bring curiosity to areas of your personal life that feel murky, repetitive, or charged.

  • Money & Entrepreneurship: Explore how parts of you relate to earning, spending, growing your practice, or expanding your reach.

  • Transition Points: Investigate what’s surfacing in times of change, grief, loss, excitement, ambivalence, or uncertainty.

These are just examples! YOU are invited to bring any part of your life that feels ready for deeper attention.

Experiential Learning Activities

  • Parts Mapping: Learn to map, get to know, and befriend your parts to enhance your functioning. This session is more than an exercise; it's an overarching experiential lesson on engaging deeply with your internal system.

  • Workbook Journal: Throughout the retreat, you will work with a carefully designed workbook that features explorative prompts, activities, and spaces for personal notes. The workbook also includes a parts log to help you track and understand various parts of your system.

  • Creative Expression: Utilize creative methods like mind mapping, parts art, and journaling to externalize and process internal experiences creatively and therapeutically.

  • Find EMDR Targets: Learn about burdens held by various parts of your system and identify trailheads for healing.

  • Live Demos: Experience the EMDR + IFS integration live and in person.

What You'll Leave With

  • A stronger connection to your own Self-energy and a deeper understanding of your internal system

  • Practical experience applying IFS principles to your own healing

  • The opportunity to witness and practice parts mapping, internal interviews, and optional EMDR integration

  • Personalized insights that translate directly into your work with clients

  • Client-ready tools and techniques you’ve experienced firsthand

Dynamic Retreat Structure

  • Integrated Sessions: Each day is structured to combine informative presentations with live demonstrations and interactive, hands-on activities that reinforce learning.

  • Self-Energy and Connection: Allocate time to connect with and strengthen your inner Self-energy, fostering a deeper understanding and grounding essential for therapeutic work.

Your Retreat Experience

  • Journal and Activities: The provided workbook is a vital component of your retreat experience, designed to facilitate active engagement with the material and support your learning journey.

  • Diverse Methods: Experience a variety of therapeutic techniques, from structured setups like the conference table for group discussions to artistic explorations for individual reflection and expression.

This retreat is crafted for those looking to deepen their understanding of IFS and EMDR within a community of like-minded professionals, all while focusing on personal self-care and professional development. Join us for a transformative journey that will refresh, educate, and inspire you to integrate these powerful models into your clinical practice effectively.

Who This Retreat Is For

This retreat is designed for therapists who have already developed a solid foundation in both EMDR and IFS. Ideally, participants have completed The Integrated EMDR and IFS Model Level 1 training (live or on-demand), or they have a working knowledge of both models through other training or practice.

Please note that this retreat is not an introductory training in the integration of EMDR and IFS. We will demonstrate the integrated model and support participants in exploring their own internal systems, but we do not teach the foundational skills of either model during the retreat.

If you’re new to either EMDR or IFS, we recommend completing foundational training before attending. If you’re unsure whether the retreat is the right fit for you, feel free to reach out for clarification.

RETREAT LEADERS

  • Dr. Kendhal Hart, LPC-S, LPCC

    RETREAT LEADER

    Dr. Hart brings a wealth of experience and a deep understanding of the therapeutic process. As an advanced IFS Consultant, Dr. Hart specializes in guiding therapists through the intricate process of self-exploration and professional growth. Her work is driven by a commitment to foster healing and resilience among helping professionals.

  • Kristie Boggs, LPC

    RETREAT LEADER

    Kristie is an innovative therapist and educator who excels at integrating IFS into therapeutic practices for enhanced effectiveness. With her extensive experience in counseling and a focus on experiential learning, Kristie helps therapists uncover and address the parts of themselves that impact their professional lives and personal well-being.

  • Alyce Messer, LCSW-S

    RETREAT LEADER

    Alyce is a dedicated therapist committed to supporting other therapists on their journey to understanding and healing various forms of trauma. Alyce employs attachment principles and neurobiology to understand symptoms and conceptualize accordingly deeply. She emphasizes growth and resilience, viewing cases through adaptation rather than pathology.

Cost, Dates, and Inclusions

Retreat Fee: $1,795

$1645 Early Bird Pricing

Early Bird Pricing Ends August 1, 2025

October 2-4, 2025 in San Diego, California

Thursday and Friday, 9:00 AM to 4:00 PM and Saturday, 9:00 AM to 2:00 PM

CE Information: 16 EMDRIA + NBCC CE

Join us for a transformative three-day retreat to enrich your professional skills and personal well-being. The retreat fee includes:

  • Comprehensive Retreat Materials: Receive exclusive access to all retreat materials, including a detailed workbook filled with exercises and information.

  • Full Program Access: Participate in all scheduled sessions, including educational blocks, experiential activities, yoga, and mindfulness or meditation practices.

  • 16 Continuing Education (CE) Units: Accredited by EMDRIA and the NBCC, these units apply to your professional development and certification requirements.

  • Daily Lunch: Enjoy a variety of healthy and delicious lunch options each day, catered to provide energy and nourishment throughout the retreat. The cost of lunch is included in your retreat fee. Each lunch offers various options for most dietary needs, including vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free, and dairy-free.

  • Refreshments: Complimentary drinks and snacks will be available throughout the day to keep you hydrated and focused.

Additional Costs:

  • Accommodation: Participants are responsible for booking and paying for their hotel rooms or other accommodations. We’ve negotiated a special group rate of $259 per night for the hotel room for our retreat participants.

  • Breakfast and Dinner: Participants are responsible for meals other than the provided lunches. The hotel or resort offers multiple dining options catering to various dietary preferences.

  • Travel and Personal Expenses: Each participant is responsible for all travel and any additional personal expenses incurred during the retreat.

Accessibility

The retreat venue is fully ADA accessible, with all rooms located on the ground level. If you have specific accessibility needs, please contact me directly—I’d be happy to verify whether the space can accommodate you.

Booking Information:

To reserve your spot at the retreat, please register below. Early registration is recommended as spaces are limited and fill up quickly.

Experience a unique blend of professional development and personal growth in a stunning setting. We look forward to welcoming you to an inspiring and rejuvenating retreat.

Questions? Contact Me.

"Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes." - Carl Jung